5 reasons why you shouldn't Cling unto The Past

The Past will definitely haunt us whether you like it or not but to move on or to cling unto it, that is the decision that you have to make and follow through. As the one who has gotten hurt by the one that you thought was your everything, moving on is definitely the best solution for your own good.

Of course, its easier said than done. As cliche as it may sound, what your past did to you will make you a wiser person in the near future. Move on mistakes & love yourself more. Do not let the past hinder your future.

So here is 5 good valid reasons on why Clinging unto the past doesn't benefit you at all.


1) Miserable,Depressed & Moodless.
    Why would you wanna weep & cry about it all the time when you can be enjoying your life with your friends & family? Would the other party even care about you at this point? Whether its been a month or a year, do not show how weak you are. Life is short, chin up & embrace the better future waiting for you! 


2) The Other Party.
     Don't we all already know this? Two separate person who were once in love, now strangers? Both party wouldn't wanna let their ego down and win the 'Who is happier at the moment' thing. Well of course if one has moved on, you should show you are happy and not miserable too.


3) The better ONE.
    Why bother clinging unto someone that didn't cherish you at the first place? One too many chances given and none was cherished? Forget about giving people chances when you can be the one given the chance to be happier in life. Who knows the better ONE is somewhere out there for you? Maybe even all along by your side but it just wasn't the right time. Believe in yourself & always never settle for something that do not cherish you the way you do to the other.


4) Karma.
    Some believe in karma,some don't. Well I guess it is a personal thing. Nevertheless, I believe in what someone do to others, he/she will get an equal or maybe more back to themselves sooner or later. Why do something to someone if you do not want that to happen to yourself? Funny how some people do not know how this works in life. Life is about being happy & not hurting others.


5) The new YOU.
     Think of the future you whether you are still clinging unto it or not. Which would you rather be? The same old miserable you or the better happier you? Imagine being with someone new & you are still affected by your past? It would not be fair for your significant other and might jeopardize your new relationship. 


To cut it short, it may not be easy to apply to those who were hurt too deep by their past but I guess its part of our lives to meet people who hurt us without thinking of how it ruined us deep within. 

So here is a toast to those who were once hurt, Cheers to you who are happier now with your new life!